Celebrating All Nourished Newborns

Origins Birth and Wellness Center loves celebrating our nursing mamas! It’s a triumph and a journey for many and we know what a huge accomplishment it can be. We also 100% believe that a fed baby is a happy baby! Origins supports all our parents HOWEVER they feed their babies. ⁠ ⁠ 

While breastfeeding is the optimal feeding choice, it may not be the best choice for all families, and there must be a balance between promoting breastfeeding and supporting parents who cannot or choose not to breastfeed. Breastfeeding is often considered a fundamental aspect of motherhood and a natural way to nourish and bond with a newborn. However, it’s important to recognize that every parent’s journey is unique, and not all parents choose to, or are able to, breastfeed. 

Breast is not Always Best

There are a variety of reasons why some parents opt not to breastfeed. At Origins we always approach this topic with compassion and without judgment, understanding every parent’s journey is unique.

Health Considerations

While breast milk is known for its nutritional benefits, some mothers may have medical conditions that prevent them from breastfeeding. There are certain medications, illnesses, or chronic health issues that may pose risks to the mother or the newborn. 

Mental Health

The postpartum period can be emotionally challenging for many parents, and mental health concerns are more common than one might think. Conditions like postpartum mood disorders can affect a mother’s ability to breastfeed and can even contribute to feelings of guilt or inadequacy. Origins strives to change the stigma that not wanting to or being able to breastfeed your baby is a failure. 

Lifestyle and Work Demands

Some lifestyles come with demanding work schedules and other commitments. Parents may need to return to work shortly after childbirth and find it difficult to integrate breastfeeding into their routine. The need for a flexible schedule, the absence of suitable facilities for pumping or storing breast milk, or the need to travel for work can all be factors that influence a parent’s decision not to breastfeed.

Physical Discomfort and Pain

Breastfeeding is a learned skill and, for some mothers, it can be a physically uncomfortable or even a painful experience. Difficulties in latching, engorgement, nipple pain, and other challenges can make breastfeeding a source of distress rather than a bonding experience. 

Personal Choice

It’s essential to respect a woman’s bodily autonomy when it comes to her body and her choices. Some mothers may simply not feel comfortable breastfeeding, or they might have personal beliefs or cultural reasons that influence their decision. It’s crucial to acknowledge that each mother has the right to make decisions that align with her values and beliefs, even if those choices differ from societal norms.

Past Trauma

For some mothers, past traumatic experiences might cause them to feel triggered while breastfeeding and may influence their decision. Such experiences might invoke emotional distress, and a mother might choose not to breastfeed as a way to protect her mental and emotional well-being.

Premature Birth

Mothers of premature babies might experience a delay in milk production. The milk supply can take longer to establish due to the hormonal changes associated with premature birth. Some mothers may struggle to produce enough milk to meet the nutritional needs of their premature infants. Premature babies often require extra calories and nutrients to support their growth and development. They might have difficulty latching onto the breast due to their small size, weak muscles, and limited coordination. Some premature babies require supplemental feeding with formula, donor breast milk or a G-button to ensure they receive adequate nutrition and grow properly. This can impact the mother’s milk supply and the baby’s willingness to breastfeed.

Rather than passing judgment, society should strive to create an environment of empathy and support that allows parents to make the best decisions for themselves and their babies. Ultimately, the well-being of both the mother and the child should be the priority, regardless of whether breastfeeding is part of their journey.

After all, a thriving baby is a triumph to be celebrated! We see you! We love you! We support you!⁠